Based on the official definition of “Millennial,” it means that I, someone who didn’t have a cellphone until college (Nokia brick with no texting ability), am somehow lumped together into the same “generation” as my middle school students born after 9/11!
As someone who has just as much trouble relating to “kids these days” as my colleagues born in the 60s and 70s, the generation labels don’t make a whole lot of sense. Which is why, while reading The App Generation, I felt an enormous feeling of relief. The “App Generation” refers to children born into the world of smartphones, where the Internet is everywhere, accessible at any time. The main characteristics of the generation revolve around what Howard Gardner calls the “3 I’s”:
Identity (Public/Online vs. Personal/Private)
Intimacy (Followers and “Friends” vs. Face to Face Interactions)
Imagination (Instant Gratification vs. Creative Problem-Solving)
I see so many of these attributes in my students, magnified by the fact that they are in middle school. When you are 12-14 years old, the 3 I’s are always a struggle, regardless of your generational label. In the world of social media and smartphones, however, these characteristics become even more apparent. In short, I do not envy my students in the slightest. My middle-school years were...well, terrible. Everything was awkward and embarrassing. My biggest mistakes (fashion and otherwise) were made between the ages of 12 and 19. Could you imagine having to go through all of that “on the record” with everyone watching? Yikes.
It is important that we understand where our students are coming from, and not just so we can effectively teach them content knowledge. We need to develop our own empathy skills in order to build meaningful relationships with them, too.